Our marriage is What We Make of It. Something very profound Lola said is the need to be deliberate in our marriages. At a point in their marriage, she felt the need to be heard which tends to be something a lot of women struggle to express and end up getting stifled to the point of quitting the marriage or stay but resent the partner. . They are the authors of the book – Get My Marriage Back: How to save & fix your broken marriage all by yourself. They run a weekly marriage boot camp on their website lolaandola.com